Top Tips for Preparing your Kids for University

September 27, 2016

My daughter, E, is entering her second year of university. The first year has gone by in a blur, but I must admit I’ve learnt over the past year.

Having a child in university is both exciting and nerve wracking! I live in Cardiff, yet my daughter is in Southampton as that’s the university of her choice. It’s strange being this far away from her, yet I know that this is a new exciting chapter of her life and I’m both pleased for her and also very proud of her.

So, if you have a child who is thinking of going to university, I thought I’d share some tips with you to help prepare them.

Money Management

Going to university can be expensive. With rent to pay, as well as the cost of food, having a social life and the addition of having to be organised when it comes to form filling for things such as bursaries and student finance, can leave new students feeling a little flustered.

That’s why it’s so important to organise your money before setting off to university. Of course the majority of the financial burden that comes with a child going to university falls to the parents. Therefore it’s no wonder that a lot of parents will turn to equity release in order to help fund their child’s education.

Teaching them about how to budget for things to ensure that their money goes further is a pretty vital skill. Of course you’ll want your child to have a social life, but you’ll also want to make sure that they have enough money for food. Talk to your child about how they can budget and offer tips and advice.

Father and daughter university

The Essentials 

Like many students they’ll probably need a laptop, possibly also a printer. Do your research to find the best deals.

Now what you may class as essentials may be completely different to what your child would class as an essential. Things like bedding, kitchenware and utensils are going to be needed, but there’s no point buying the most expensive ones. Super market own brands will suffice.

Eat Properly

Teaching your child to eat properly can also be a good way to prepare them for life at university. You won’t want them to live off takeaways, although in truth they probably won’t be able to afford to do that! However, some basic cooking skills and knowledge about what types of meals they can cook can come in handy.

It may also be worth writing down a weekly shopping list for your child, along with a list of quick and easy recipes.

Don’t Worry

My final words on this is to you, mum and dad. Try not to worry! You will worry, of course you will, but they will learn to grow up. They will mature and develop their own sense of independence to start making the right decisions when it matters.

17 Comments

  • David Mellor

    September 30, 2016 at 7:06 am

    All solid advice. I still remember being overawed on my first day at uni – not so much by living hundreds of miles away from home, I loved that haha – but more the fact I now had to look after things like my finances and bedsheets. I hope she’s enjoying her course and wish her every success for the future. It’s a great time of your life.
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  • Natasha Mairs

    September 30, 2016 at 7:56 am

    Great advice, especially about learning to get their finance’s in order. #ThatFridayLinky

  • Rach

    September 30, 2016 at 8:18 am

    Some brilliant advice here! I can imagine it must be quite emotional watching your kids leave for Uni #thatfridaylinky

  • five little doves

    September 30, 2016 at 11:42 am

    Great tips! Money management really is the big one, I blew all of my budget on alcohol in freshers week and then lived off super noodles until the next instalment of my student loan!! #thatfridaylinky

  • Helen

    September 30, 2016 at 11:58 am

    I can’t imagine what its like sending your children off to uni – I was that child going to uni quite a few years ago now and it was traumatic, but only for a short amount of time and I think in the end it made us all closer. #thatfridaylinky

    Helen x

    http://www.treasureeverymoment.co.uk/

  • John Adams

    September 30, 2016 at 12:15 pm

    Ah man, when I read blog posts like this I want to cry. Yes, yes, my kids are going to grow up and leave home. It’s the natural order of things (some even go to Australia hey Nigel??). Even so I don’t want reminding! The thought terrifies me.

  • Life as Mum

    September 30, 2016 at 6:28 pm

    Fantastic advice here. I dread to think when my girls are older – hopefully they will head off to uni though!
    #ThatFridayLinky

  • Helen Gandy

    September 30, 2016 at 7:57 pm

    A very practical post, my husband has only just recently paid his student loan off a couple of years ago, the debt side of things is just awful but I believe university is such a valuable right of passage. Great post and love the new linky, thanks for hosting! #ThatFridayLinky

  • Martin

    September 30, 2016 at 8:28 pm

    Few years before I’ll be there my son is 2! I’ll bare in mind though! #thatfridaylinky

  • Laura McGowan

    September 30, 2016 at 8:41 pm

    Don’t worry is good advice, you can terrify yourself with it. Found you on #ThatFridayLinky

  • Ryan Bickham

    September 30, 2016 at 10:32 pm

    Great advice; I am nervous about my son starting school next September let alone University #ThatFridayLinky

  • the frenchie mummy

    October 1, 2016 at 9:47 pm

    This post made me remember the good all times at uni. My parents helped me a bit the two first years but then it was up to me! My flat, well my room was the size of a cupboard the first year! I hated it so was always out… Good tips here. Your daughter is very lucky. Southampton is gorgeous. I bet you she is having lots of fun lol. Just teasing you sorry, she looks like a good girl… #ThatFridayLinky

  • Jade – Raw Childhood

    October 3, 2016 at 9:25 pm

    Totally agree with every word! I have been moved out and living as an adult since I was 15 (paying bills, working, studying etc) and didn’t go to uni until I was 22. I’m now in my final year and graduate in July and like you said, I just don’t know how it has gone so fast! They really are good tips for someone moving straight out of the family home into university life #thatfridaylinky

  • Alan Herbert

    October 10, 2016 at 9:23 pm

    Great tips Nige. Thankfully I’ve a few years to go before we have to worry about this.

    You’ll be an old hand at it by then so I’ll look out for more tips. 😀

    Thanks for hosting

    #thatfridaylinky

  • Martin Lee

    April 22, 2017 at 12:24 pm

    Good sound advice…few years before I’ll be there yet though! #thatfridaylinky

  • Martin Lee

    April 22, 2017 at 12:24 pm

    Good sound advice…few years before I’ll be there yet though! #thatfridaylinky

  • Sonia Cave

    November 18, 2017 at 9:12 pm

    Oh my I worry about all of this for the years to come…can’t imagine them leaving!! helpful advice though #thatfridaylinky

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