Have you become complacent in your relationship
Relationships come in many forms today and the truth is they can be very hard to hold it all together in the very busy lives that we live.
The stresses and strains of parenting work etc can at times put a huge pressure on making your relationship work.
Do we at times forget those little things that make it all work make your partner,wife etc feel special because it is so easy to become complacent.
Do we set out priorities in our lives as far as our children and partners are concerned for me I don’t my children and wife are of equal importance to me.
I like to think my wife and myself have a strong loving relationship that in truth has mostly ups and very few downs. This is hopefully what especially our four year old twins are learning from us,on how to form a good relationship.
To me it’s not rocket science if you are in love with each other and you laugh with each other your children are going to be happy so surely their is no need to put one above the other as has recently been suggested by some celebrity interviews.
I am actually staggered that people can make that decision putting your partner above your children to me I would find it an impossible decision not one I could make.
You marry and hopefully that marriage is for a lifetime and you have children which is also for life it’s not something surely! That once they reach a certain age they put in second place it’s not something in my opinion that should even be comtemlated.
Yes of course your children grow up and leave eventually and you and your partner are left together but things shouldn’t change if your children have grown up in loving lie free childhood they will come back home and your family is still there as a loving enviroment.
Again the media and celebrities are trying to force there opinions upon us this seems to be so common place by society in general I do wonder when society will allow people to make their own decisions about how to live their lives.
