Why I think R&M are lucky to have their mum

February 16, 2015

Where do I begin?

My wife was born to be a mum. If I was a child I would wish for a mum just like her.

Some women are just born to be mums and my wife is one of those women.
She has the fantastic ability to communicate with R & M on so many different levels. Sometimes I sit and just marvel at the relationship she has with the girls. My wife never tires of playing with them and justs loves doing things with them.

Recently at about 5 o’clock one day, I was honestly just looking forward to bedtime so I could have a rest! All of sudden my wife was baking cakes with them in the kitchen. She has so much patience and three year olds can certainly test your patience!

I know we all love our children, but sometimes I notice something very special which my wife has. She not only loves and adores the girls, she has all the time in the world for their every need. I am sure her first thought in the morning and the last thought at night is most likely the girls which in my mind is beautiful.

I see so many parents either shouting at their children or ignoring them while they play because they are talking to someone else or they are using their phone – which is always more important?
At the different playgroups my wife goes to she is always there sitting on the floor getting involved with the girls activity and giving them the confidence to play knowing mum is there to support them if needed. My wife is the girls rock in their lives. There is nothing she would not do for them. There are no boundaries to her love and commitment for the girls. It is such a natural way for her to be.

I think I am very hands on with the girls and have a fantastic relationship with them, but it takes a special person to form the most wonderful bond I see between the girls and their mum. They are always laughing and happy when their mum is around. Everything my wife does is effortless and completely natural. What a wonderful attribute to have 
My wife is the most natural mother ever. Nothing seems to upset or worry her when it comes to R&M. She seems to know their needs by instinct.
It fills me with so much joy and happiness when I see them together.
I love you all so very much and I know if one day I am not here, the girls are in the safest hands in the world and I know my wife won’t let the girls forget me xxx

20 Comments

  • mummyofboygirltwins

    February 24, 2015 at 3:33 pm

    What a sweet post!! Nearly cried!! Ahhh bless, she looks like she adores them and vice versa. Gorgeous post and you are very right – twin Mums are so special. Jess #multiplemadness

  • When the Dust Settles

    February 25, 2015 at 8:40 am

    A very nice post about your wife 🙂 like you mine (well GF) is brilliant with our daughter (and my sons as it goes) it does make you proud you chose well (wow that sounds patronising but isn't meant to be).

    1. Nigel

      February 25, 2015 at 9:13 am

      Thank you

  • Tommy Manzie

    February 25, 2015 at 9:02 am

    You have a lovely family 🙂

    1. Nigel

      February 25, 2015 at 9:12 am

      Thank you

  • Kirsty Hijacked By Twins

    February 25, 2015 at 9:38 am

    Arrr this is such a lovely post #multiplemadness

  • Caro Davies

    February 26, 2015 at 4:49 pm

    Aaaah this is SO lovely Nigel — the way you speak about your wife is just beautiful! And she probably thinks exactly the same thing about you too. Cos after all twin daddies — as well as mamas — are a VERY special breed!! #MultipleMadness

  • 4under4madness

    February 27, 2015 at 7:58 am

    Such a lovely post. Sounds like your girls have the best Mummy and Daddy

  • @triplethedad

    February 27, 2015 at 3:33 pm

    Very nice post. Your family looks lovely.

    We are also the parents who are always on the floor at kids parties playing with the kids while the other adults mill about talking.

    Thanks for posting.

    #multiplemadness

  • Victoria Welton

    February 28, 2015 at 11:56 pm

    What a gorgeous post – and beautiful dedication to your lovely wife 🙂 I am lucky to have a partner who is appreciative just like you 🙂 Thank you for linking to #PoCoLo.

  • ourtinylifeblog

    March 1, 2015 at 6:55 pm

    Such a lovely post, she really is an amazing mum 🙂 x

  • A Cornish Mum

    March 1, 2015 at 7:10 pm

    What a beautiful heartfelt post! Clearly your wife is lucky to have you! Stevie ☺

  • Sarah H

    March 1, 2015 at 10:27 pm

    Such a lovely compliment for your wife, well done both of you x #pocolo

  • Dianne

    March 2, 2015 at 7:55 am

    Such a lovely post –

  • Fern

    March 2, 2015 at 8:36 am

    what a lovely post 🙂 your wife is lucky to have a partner so appreciative

  • A Cornish Mum

    March 2, 2015 at 11:13 am

    Thanks for linking up to my blog linky with this post at acornishmum.com the post badge is now working if you wanted to grab it 🙂 Thanks, Stevie.

  • Hayley @hayleyfromhome

    March 2, 2015 at 2:55 pm

    Such a beautiful post, so lovely to hear about your wife through your eyes. I'm sure she feels very lucky to have you be so appreciative! #multiplemadness

  • Katie Humphrey

    March 2, 2015 at 11:39 pm

    Such a lovely post. So nice to see a dad so appreciative of his wife.Thanks for linking up with #MultipleMadness

  • Odd Socks and Lollipops

    March 4, 2015 at 9:39 am

    A beautiful post, brought tears to my eyes, what a wonderful family and how lucky your girls are to have such an amazing mum =)

  • Liz Wood

    March 10, 2015 at 10:15 pm

    Beautiful beautiful words, if you appreciate this your whole life will be blessed as you know you have everything you need.

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