Acting like a four year old again!
One of most exciting things about going on a summer holiday with your four year twins is that you get to act like a four year old yourself, well I do, without those looks of disgust, disapproval and disbelief, as if to say what on earth is he doing! So childish! He is a grown man! Yet, quite simply my children are there to mask my immature behaviour which is wonderful!
At the beach you can get your bucket and spade out, and starting building the most incredible sandcastle with a moat that’s just far enough away from the tide before it starts to fill up and you can completely engross yourself in this very technical engineering project, making sure you have added strength in the right areas to withstand the incoming tide, and that the moat is deep enough, but doesn’t undermine the strength of the base! You can also add detail in the form of perhaps a Welsh flag, and all the while you haven’t noticed, in my case, that my four year old twins have walked away and are doing something completely different because basically daddy has got far to serious about his sandcastle, but I don’t care one bit! I get to be four years old again on the beach!
Then when you have completed this totally awesome sandcastle that would probably repel an invasion from the Spartans and many other ancient armies, as well as the tide being contained, you can defend your country.! It’s perfect behaving like a four year old, but with the advantages of being a grown-up to build the perfect sandcastle!
Then it happens just as you stand back and admire your brilliance at constructing this masterpiece, my four year old twins return to where you have been working tirelessly for over an hour and they show how vulnerable your sandcastle is by jumping all over it! That was war and tide proof, but not twin girl proof!
At this point as I look at my destroyed sandcastle and bordering tears I resort to a tantrum like a four year old, and looking for sympathy and comfort from my wife I am greeted with fits of laughter!
Amazingly there are no disapproving looks from anybody, just people thinking it’s okay, he is just playing and having fun with his children. Now had I have been on my own I’m sure the police would have been called and they would have locked up as mad as a hatter!
Of course you also get to play the age old game of burying daddy in the sand and just leave his head poking out which R and M thought was hysterical, and they really thought they had accomplished something!
Another game the twins thought would be loads of fun, and of course encouraged by their mummy was to pour ice cold water over daddy’s head, and this really was very exciting fun as you can see by the photo. At this point I’m not sure I felt four years old again, but more like very cold!
It’s great going on a summer holiday with my four year old twins. I get to relive my childhood just for a little time. Without any of the pressures that being adult brings such as earning a living, paying the bills, etc. How wonderful to forget all those things just for a short while! Being four years old must be wonderful. It’s just a shame you don’t remember it!




























11 Comments
Jeremy Barnes
July 6, 2016 at 7:18 pm
looks like an awesome time Nige. I think if you were to ask my wife, she would say that I never really stopped acting like a four year old to begin with…
Helen Gandy – Beautiful Things
July 6, 2016 at 8:26 pm
Ahhh I love it!!! If you can't have fun now when can you eh! Fab post, thanks for linking up #bestandworst
Mum in Brum
July 6, 2016 at 9:18 pm
Aw this looks like such a great holiday. Our daughter is 18 months now but I am secretly looking forward to when she's a little older and we can start to play tricks on dad together. Awesome sand castle making skills! #bestandworst
Topfivemum
July 8, 2016 at 1:38 pm
Love it! You are so right that having kids gives you the perfect excuse to act like a kid yourself again. I recently donned some Dame Edna style glasses at our local coffee shop to get my toddler to stay sitting in the high chair. Had I done that WITHOUT a toddler, I'd definitely had a few looks of dismay 🙂
john adams
July 9, 2016 at 5:41 am
When on holiday??? I was doing it yesterday afternoon. I was a spider and hat to catch my girls, who were flies, and take them back to my web to eat them. Please keep in my mind they thought up this game, not me!! Totally get the competitive sandcastke game. I have been known to do similar. #BrilliantBlogPosts
Emilie Curry
July 9, 2016 at 12:54 pm
Love it! Especially the photo of glee on your girls faces after they got daddy! 🙂
helloarchie.blue
July 10, 2016 at 5:08 pm
Hilarious pics! Looks like they're having so much fun, it's the best feeling when our kids bring out the kid in us. #justanotherlinky
Mimiroseandme
July 10, 2016 at 8:39 pm
Aw it looks like you all had a fab time! I think it's the best way to be lol. I love having a daughter because I can be silly, sing and break out in dance at any moment! #JustAnotherLinky
Tori Gabriel
July 12, 2016 at 3:47 pm
I am almost convinced this is why I had kids! So I could play all those fun kid games again. If this Summer ever actually gets going we'll be heading for the beach.
#justanotherlinky
Jen@lifewrangling
July 15, 2016 at 2:02 am
Love it. Children give us the excuse to do all sorts of things we would not even dream of doing in our regular adult lives. I have been thoroughly enjoying iceskating again because me daughter is doing lessons and wants me to come along to skating sessions with her. #justanotherlinky
Sarah | Digital Motherhood
July 16, 2016 at 10:04 pm
Totally agree – the best bit about having kids is getting to behave like a child yourself! It is def always the parents that show more interest in building sandcastles etc than the kids… #justanotherlinky