People No Longer Seem Obliging Or Helpful Disneyland Paris 2018
On our recent trip to Disneyland Paris I was shocked to find that people generally nowadays simply don’t go out of their way to help others. It’s all about what they want and they will have that at all costs. So let me explain a couple of instances that happened on our recent trip.
On day three of our trip we decided at the almost the last minute to go and watch the Disney Illuminations, which start at 11pm. We have been many times to watch the Illuminations and if you want a place close to the front to watch them sitting you really need to be there about an hour or so before hand. Saying that we made our way through the crowds and eventually ended up quite close to the front, and I saw a space that would easily fit two little six year old girls and two very averagely sized parents, and would we be blocking anybody’s view? Not a chance.
We were about to sit down when all of sudden the couple behind us started raising their voices and indicating that somebody was sitting there. If somebody was sitting there, then that’s no problem, I wouldn’t entertain taking somebody’s seat, it’s quite simply not in my nature to do that to anybody. So we then went to sit a little further over and a woman got very agitated with us and simply refused to allow us to sit there.
What is wrong with people today? Yes, we were late getting to the illuminations but there was room certainly for two little girls to sit down. The man of the first couple, who I might add was also a father of similar aged children to our girls, then put his legs out deliberately to cover the space where we could have sat with the girls, needless to say nobody turned up there to sit down.
I will add that the man of the second couple actually gestured for us to sit down, but would you believe it, his wife/girlfriend actually told him not to let us, and he was firmly put in his place by her.
In the end we stood against the railings which is accepted and watched the illuminations in their glory and the girls didn’t seem bothered.
The second occasion in Disneyland Paris where people just don’t give any thought or consideration to anybody else is actually a collection of moments of queue jumping and just pushing people out of the way, myself included on a number of occasions.
It’s seems today that people are just not concerned who or what is in the way, they will do everything in their power to be selfish to get their own way. It seems to be the way of the world today.
Do you think people are less obliging or helpful in today’s world? I would love to hear.




























3 Comments
Grumpy Mum
June 27, 2018 at 7:32 am
The worst example of this I have experienced was when I was a reenactor.
I was helping out by marshalling the crowd at a large even and a member of the public approached me.
He’d arrived late with a disabled gentleman who was visually impaired and asked if I could help him find somewhere to sit as it was quite crowded.
I immediately said of course and asked them to follow me into the fire lane. We walked along the front of the crowed and I found a spot that was nearly big enough so I ask the couple next to it if they could move over an inch or two (they were very spread out) so that a disabled visitor could sit down. Baring in mind that this was free to the public and we were all volunteers, the abuse I was given was unbelievable!
I told the couple they should be ashamed of themselves then moved a little further down the line but got the same reaction. Everyone was too selfish to make room for someone less fortunate.
After the second insident the carer got upset and thanked me but said they weren’t going to beg people for help.
I honestly couldn’t believe how selfish people were. Luckily I knew the crowed would thin a lot 10 minutes in so I was able to get them sat much nearer the center front at that point but still, it certainly highlighted how self centered people can be.
Kim Carberry
June 27, 2018 at 7:32 pm
Ugh! Some people are so rude and selfish!
My thoughts are that if no one is sitting there at a public place I can….
Saving seats and places in a line in a place like Disneyland is not fair on all the other visitors. #bloggersbest
Jeremy@ThirstyDaddy
June 28, 2018 at 3:28 pm
My daughter and I spent yesterday at 6 Flags, a large amusement park that is somewhat similar to the Disney parks. There were quite a few times when I had to bite my tongue to stop from telling somebody off for being rude #bloggersbest