• Twin love: My Sunday Photo

    August 5, 2018

    There are times when you are a constant referee, trying to stop the arguments which of course are a regular occurrence in every home up and down the UK with siblings fighting and arguing. and our home is no different. But every now and again there is a moment of magic where our six year…

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  • Just When I Thought Family Couldn’t Hurt Me Anymore This Happens!

    June 5, 2018

    Well here is a story which would be difficult to make up. Just when I thought my original family couldn’t leave me bruised and hurt anymore than they already have, they just have again, and it’s left me thinking that you can’t pick your family, but you sure as hell can pick your friends. I…

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  • Family And Love This Boxing Day In Our Home

    December 27, 2017

    I will never be super wealthy, but I don’t need to be, especially when I look around me and see who was in my home on Boxing Day. My five wonderful children, my beautiful wife and my mum. Let’s be honest all the money in world could never buy all that love and family. It’s…

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  • My Four Daughters Or Donkeys :My Sunday Photo

    December 17, 2017

    On one of those very rare moments all five of my children were in the same room. And I captured this particularly magical moment where young meets old playing a game of “Don’t Be A Donkey”, I’m not sure much playing of the game was actually happening, it was a more a case of let’s…

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  • Sisters: My Sunday Photo

    December 3, 2017

    On Wednesday just gone it was my birthday, and my 20 year old daughter came home from university for a few days. Which was wonderful as I got to see her on my birthday, many moments make your life worthwhile, and my Sunday Photo this week is without a doubt, one of them. Whenever my…

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  • The Older I Get The More It Hurts: Siblings

    December 1, 2017

    Another year has passed and I’m another year older. The older I get, the more think of the estranged relationships I have with my brother and sister, and quite honestly it hurts a bit more every year. When I was born I had a mother, father, brother and sister. I have on many previous occasions…

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  • I Was Once Part Of A Happy Family Of Five 

    July 21, 2017

    In the near future I will be doing a blog post about a company that basically revitalises all your old black & white photos. So at this point I decided to raid my mum’s house for as many old black and white photos that I could find,  and wow! What a shock I was in…

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  • The Twins Turned Five and OMG! They Have Changed 

    March 13, 2017

    Just under two weeks ago our twin girls, R and M, turned five years old. Along with turning five I think they had character and personality changes as well. There was a time when they were four years old all of a fortnight ago that they were the best of friends. Well, I wouldn’t call…

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  • Half: Brothers and Sisters 

    March 6, 2017

    Regular readers of my blog will know that I have five children from two marriages. The oldest three are from my first marriage and my five year old twin girls are from my second marriage.  When my wife and I found out she was pregnant, which we found out was going to be twins, I…

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  • My Brother: How Things work out in Life 

    February 8, 2017

    I have written before about my sibling relationships and how unfortunately due to a very dysfunctional childhood it’s left the relationship with my sibling in tatters to the point today that none of us speak to each other. It is very sad, but its just the way life works out.   Growing up I have…

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  • My Sunday Photo ( Big Sister) 

    February 5, 2017

    This weekend my 19 year old daughter came home for the weekend from university.  Her twin sisters R and M miss her so much, when she is away studying at university,and never stop talking about her. So it is was a special moment on Saturday morning when they got to have cuddles with her on…

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  • Childhood Bedrooms

    October 15, 2016

    Recently I have been employed to re-decorate two bedrooms in a semi-detached house in the suburbs of the city that I live in. The job itself is relatively straight forward, but it was the background story that got me thinking and interested me. I will explain why. Growing up I never had a bedroom long…

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  • My Sunday Photo. 

    September 18, 2016

    My photo this week is my four year old twins showing sibling twin love with a big cuddle. I love the way they can be arguing one minute and then showing huge love for each other the next.

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  • My sibling relationships

    August 1, 2016

    I was recently mentioned by John who blogs at Dad Blog UK as a dad blogger to follow, which I have to say I felt very humbled by. In it John mentioned two posts of mine, do I see my father before he dies?, and my childhood, marriages and children looking back. All of this…

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  • Do we tell those closest to us I love you enough?

    May 17, 2016

    Three little words that we say often to another person. That could be our husband, wife, brother, sister, son, daughter, mother, father and many others, to express how we feel about those closest to us. How often do we say those three little words? Not enough I imagine and yet it’s simple and easy to…

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  • The fantastic relationship our twins are developing

    February 8, 2016

    Just recently as I have written, M had to have an operation at our local children’s hospital. I noticed something properly for the very first time. I was always aware of, but it stood out now more than ever before and that’s the closeness and bond my twin girls have developed for one another. When…

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  • The older brother

    April 29, 2015

    I have five children from two marriages. Three children from my first marriage and twins from my second marriage. I always wondered how my older children would accept having two younger siblings. Saying that all three never had a problem. The two oldest have very busy lives so they see their twin sisters as often…

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